Today, I’ll answer the question of why someone might fantasize so much about their crush. Why does someone create elaborate daydreams about their romantic interests while not taking any real-life action?

Escaping Reality

Fantasizing is often a way of escaping the potential pain of rejection. The fear of approaching your crush in the real world can be paralyzing. The possibility of rejection is daunting, and as a coping mechanism, daydreaming offers an escape. In these fantasies, you have full control. You can talk to your crush, go on dates, and build connections without the fear of rejection.

Emotional Fulfillment

Daydreams can provide a sense of emotional fulfillment. These vivid, self-created fantasies allow you to feel a strong connection with your crush. The pleasure derived from these fantasies can be so intense that you’re compelled to keep returning to them.

Loneliness and Lack of Real-Life Relationships

Loneliness and a lack of real-life connections often contribute to excessive daydreaming. When you haven’t developed solid real-world relationships, you may resort to this easy escape. Even if it’s your crush, remember that they are still a human being. With improved social skills and reduced social anxiety, you might feel more confident approaching your crush or any other person in reality.

In summary, while fantasizing about your crush is normal, there’s a significant difference between daydreaming and taking action in the real world. It’s crucial to focus on building real-life connections and setting realistic expectations for socializing. Don’t be too hard on yourself, but also remember to work on improving your real-life experiences.

Note from the Author

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